A
coaching conversation is not the same as an everyday conversation.
My
best coaching occurs when I disappear completely from my client’s point of view. They are simply conversing with themselves.
I
endevour to create delivery situations where that happens easily and
naturally. In whatever situation I coach
in, I strive to blend into the conversation and to fade away from my client’s
attention.
Phone
coaching or Skype coaching are the closest approximation to me being a
disembodied voice, engaging my client in a conversation, that becomes a
conversation with themselves, not with me.
In
coaching, they are the important one. The
centre of their attention needs to be themselves. It’s a one way street.
In a
coaching session, I take the position of an observer, a facilitator and a
scribe, dancing in the periphery of my client’s attention.
My first
role is to hear my client’s own brilliant projects, solutions, values, insights
and aspirations, all of which would otherwise be unheard and unknown by my
client.
My next
role is to allow them to hear those extraordinary things and bring those things
to bear to their projects, their actions, their strategies, their life and
their relationships.
My
next role is to help them focus on being in action in alignment with those
extraordinary things.
Coaching
sometimes appears to be bringing back the extraordinary to be used to enhance
the ordinary day to day actions, experiences and results.
This is only the beginning. Get to know clarity. Email me, Mike Kennedy...
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