All she really wants to do is play and have fun.
Want to get some control back in your life? - Talk with her - ask her how she is, what she wants and just get her into dialogue. Spend some time with her, do some things she wants to do when you want to do it.
It's not that she is malevolent, she doesn't know that what she is doing is destructive. All she is doing, as far as she is concerned, is playing.
When she is operating below your radar, she eats when she wants, drinks when she wants, slacks off when she wants and pursues self destructive pleasures.
She's your naughty little girl (or boy) and she is out of control when she's left to her devices.
Why should you watch what you eat and when you do eat, why should it be healthy? So what if you are drinking too much and are falling all over the place - she's just having fun!
She's your naughty little girl and she wants your attention if you want her to behave the way you want her to. She wants recognition, she wants you to play with her, she wants you to spend some time with her.
Want to get some control back in your life? - Talk with her - ask her how she is, what she wants and just get her into dialogue. Spend some time with her, do some things she wants to do when you want to do it.
The good news about this, if you do spend the time with her, eventually she will blend back into your self, with new habits and a lot happier.
A naughty little girl can do a lot of damage if she feels neglected!
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