You have a dramatic saga going on inside of you.
have it's own way.
Your Parent wants to remove all risk
and protect you at all costs.
This sometimes looks like an all out battle
going on inside of you.
Transactional Analysis shows us how to insert the Adult between the two battling selves.
This creates a new possibility of personal integration:
Parent | Adult
| Child
The trick is for you to learn is that
your
Adult firstly
listens to
both the Parent and
then your Child
with Respect.
Then, your Adult
makes a decision,
taking in consideration what
the Adult and Child want,
but making the decision
based on the Adult's
understanding
of the situation,
the consequences of the decision
& the benefits of the decision.
The Adult
makes the decision;
the Parent & the Child just want to
be heard out.
Here's an amazing Ted Talk that shows you what can happen when you try and shut your inner voices down.
There are consequences.
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